Life of a Person with Dementia: Start to Finish

Dementia is a progressive disease that affects a person's memory, cognitive functions, and overall functionality. It is a life-changing experience, not just for the affected person but also for his or her family and caregivers. The course of dementia may differ from one person to another, but it usually follows a certain pattern, from initial symptoms to advanced stages. What follows is a step-by-step description of the life of a person with dementia, from start to finish.

Early Stage: The Subtle Beginnings

During the early stages of dementia, the person may have mild memory loss or confusion. This phase can last for months or even years, and the individual may still be able to function quite independently. Some of the typical signs include forgetting names or appointments, struggling to find the right words, and getting lost occasionally. These symptoms are usually ignored or dismissed as normal aging. People can still be independent in everyday activities but require support with activities such as handling finances or organizing complex activities.

Emotions such as frustration or embarrassment are common at this stage. The person may recognize that something isn’t quite right but may not fully understand what is happening. Family members might notice that their loved one is becoming increasingly forgetful, and this is when the first signs of cognitive decline are typically detected.

Middle Stage: Increasing Dependence

When dementia escalates into its middle stages, the mental as well as the functional deterioration sets in. Simple activities like getting dressed, having meals, or personal hygiene are difficult for him. Forgetfulness of familiar close family members, disorientation regarding time and location, and a problem recognizing surroundings are some general symptoms.

The patient can also suffer from mood swings, agitation, and anxiety. Easily becoming frustrated or upset due to their inability to carry out tasks they easily did before is also common. Wandering or getting lost in known environments is also a common experience during this phase, which adds to the safety issue. The ability to communicate decreases, and patients get confused with expressing themselves or comprehending others.

At this point, family members or professional caregivers have an important role in supporting, watching over the individual's health, and making sure they are safe. The person may require specialized care services like NEMA memory carehomes or assisted living as the person becomes increasingly dependent.

Late Stage: Complete Dependence

During the last phase of dementia, the person becomes totally reliant on others for care. They might not be able to speak anymore, and physical capabilities like walking or eating are compromised. Memory loss is extensive, and the person may no longer be able to recognize the closest relatives. Their mental capacities decline greatly, and they may not be able to comprehend what surrounds them or express what they need.

At this point, the person may require round-the-clock care to manage daily activities, and professional caregivers often provide comfort and safety. Despite the loss of cognitive function, individuals may still respond to emotional stimuli, such as familiar voices, music, or gentle touch, offering opportunities for caregivers to engage and provide emotional support.

End of Life: Peace and Dignity

As dementia progresses to its terminal stages, the individual's physical health deteriorates quickly. The individual might experience complications like infection or dysphagia. It is necessary that the end-of-life care prioritizes the preservation of the individual's dignity and comfort. This phase is commonly characterized by palliative care, as it is centered on the alleviation of pain and bringing about emotional and physical comfort to the individual at the end of their life.

Family members and caregivers play a central role in offering support during this challenging period. Even though the person is no longer able to identify their loved ones, they can still enjoy moments of peace and comfort in their own familiar surroundings.

Conclusion

The life of a person with dementia is one of progressive mental and physical deterioration. The course is different from individual to individual, but the experience can be painful for both the patient and their family. Early treatment, continuous support, and empathetic care are essential during the different phases of dementia. At Nema Eldercare, we realize the complexities of dementia and are dedicated to delivering individualized care, allowing people to live with dignity, comfort, and respect throughout the duration of their illness.